How can I reconnect my kids with their Serbian roots?

How can I reconnect my kids with their Serbian roots? Dear Ana, my children were born in London and think ćevapi is ‘just meatballs.’ How do I make them appreciate where we come from without forcing it?,,

Dear Reader,

Ah, the classic ćevapi conundrum! I hear you loud and clear. When your kids think ćevapi are “just meatballs,” it’s a clear sign you’re dealing with a classic case of cultural camouflage. But fear not—reconnecting your children with their Serbian roots can be a delicious, fun, and meaningful journey that doesn’t involve any parental “force-feeding.”

First, let’s remember: culture is about connection, not coercion. Your goal is to make your Serbian heritage feel like a cozy home they want to visit, not a museum they’re obliged to tour.

Start with food, but make it an adventure. Instead of simply serving ćevapi, try inviting your children to help you make them. Kids love hands-on activities, and rolling those little sausages together can spark curiosity and pride. While cooking, share stories about where this dish comes from—maybe a memory from your childhood or a funny family anecdote. If you’re in London, you can find Balkan markets or deli shops specializing in Serbian products; even better, visit one together and let them pick out ingredients. This turns a mundane meal into a mini cultural expedition.

Next, bring Serbian music and language into your home. Play some popular Serbian songs or folk tunes during car rides or around the house. You don’t need to turn your living room into a language school, but sprinkling in common phrases or fun expressions can make Serbian feel familiar and friendly. Apps like Duolingo or Memrise offer Serbian courses that can be a playful way for them to dip their toes into the language without pressure.

Consider celebrating Serbian holidays and traditions with a twist. Whether it’s Slava (the family saint’s day), Christmas, or Easter, involve your children in decorating, preparing traditional foods, or crafting. Make it a festive event with stories, games, or even video calls with family members in Serbia. This not only teaches them about Serbian culture but also strengthens family bonds.

If possible, plan a trip to Serbia

Don’t forget the power of Serbian books and films. Look for children’s books in Serbian or bilingual editions. Films or cartoons with subtitles can also be a gentle introduction to language and culture. The Serbian cultural centers or libraries in London might have resources or events for the Serbian diaspora that your family can join.